Little Red

So I’m not married. I have a long term partner, and sometimes I feel really bad for him. While I know that some men are just as involved with making wedding plans as their fiancé, there are also some men for who, the time between proposal and wedding will be painful. And it’s not because they don’t want to get married or aren’t interested in how the day will turn out, it’s just that flowers and centrepieces aren’t their thing. You know the type of guy that says “A barbie and a couple of tinnies would be fine with me as long as everyone’s around and most of all as long as I’m marrying you”. And what sweeties those men are, they put up with months of “which one do you like better?”, because they love their fiancé. My partner is definitely one of those men. And here’s the part where I start to feel sorry for him. I think about what our wedding will be like…. A LOT… and for a long time, I just kept my musing inside, or obviously would talk to my sister, but this has stopped. I now talk to him all the time about our wedding… and he hasn’t even proposed. I guess doing this blog seems to give me an excuse. Like it’s ok to plan an imaginary wedding because “it’s for work”. So where most men only have to put up with a couple of months, my poor David is going to get YEARS of “peonies or David Austin roses”?




ANYWAAAAAAAAAAY, one of the things I think about is the fact that I want to wear red lip stick. I wear red lipstick every excuse I get. Mostly when I know I won’t see David because my favourite lipstick, Diorific Rouge Bingo Roulette Red, goes EVERYWHERE when I kiss him. So the dilemma is as such, I imagine I’ll be doing a lot of kissing on my wedding day, but I don’t want David looking like Boy George in a suit. So I have done some research into the best dramatic lipsticks that stay on your face.

1. Nars Velvet Matte Lip Pencil $24 – My favourite colour, “Dragon Girl”. This does stay on like red wine on cream coloured carpet, but it lives up to its “matte” claim. If you’re after a vintage look, it was much more the style to have matte lips than glossy between the 1920’s to 1960’s.

2. Revlon Just Bitten $15 – I’d pick “Lust” as a colour. Has mixed reviews however is proven to last up to 12 hours. As a lip stain this will need a different style of application, but will give you a glossiness.

3. Mac Pro Longwear Lipcreme $40 – I’d go for “Prolong”. Rated highly everywhere and with many colours available, give it a go. It’s not one I’ve tried, but mac are pretty solid products, and they’re available on the net, and at most department stores.

Important Note: There are a myriad of different reds. They can go from brown to orange to purple tones. You really need to try some on to make sure you’re getting the colour to suit your skin tone. Go into David Jones and demand some help from the fancy make-up counters.